We confront them all of the time, why are they so hard? Is it because we are not to see these people for an extended amount of time? When we think about this rationally there is no overly complicated reason to feel such loss whilst/before/ after saying good bye to someone. Is it that we have been bought up this way? Is it part of our geno? Or do you feel guilty when we do not miss someone? Could it be that this feeling might be that we are angry at ourselves for not taking advantage of the time together? We as a species are programmed to live together, but when it gets complicated is when we take into consideration the formatting of relationships and emotions. With these brings on the feelings associated with good byes. If we could understand that we will see them again would it make things easier? Probably not because when you think about seeing someone that you have good emotion towards you associate good times with these people, therefore thinking about the next time you will see these people you will bring up the memories of the good times, you mix that with the thought of how long it will be until you see these people again you have a case of sadness.
Well all i know is that good byes, for however long they may be for, hurt and there’s not much we can do about it.
Well all i know is that good byes, for however long they may be for, hurt and there’s not much we can do about it.
